So how are we
doing? A look at Ohio's youth
Eight Ohio middle schools recently worked with Ohio State University
Extension to begin to figure out how their students were spending their
time.
The Ohio State Community and Adolescent Research (OSCAR) project targets
students in 6th through 8th grades. OSCAR was conducted in middle schools
in rural, suburban and inner city locations with participation range from
7 percent to 93 percent, depending on the school. The findings reported
here focus on students from all eight middle schools - 2,105 young people.
So how are young Ohio teens spending their time? Weekly, middle school
students dedicate almost 4 hours on average to homework. That's less than
one hour per day. In general, kids spend more time with family (over 6.5
hours per week).
Typically, youths volunteer about an hour each week. However, 50 percent
of students are not volunteering at all, whereas about 10 percent of the
group is averaging more than 2.5 hours per week in volunteer work.
Ohio boasts a strong 4-H membership and yet the study revealed that
these students participate less than an hour a week in 4-H activities.
Sixty-five percent of the sample surveyed spend no time in 4-H during the
week. These findings seem to indicate that Ohio has the opportunity to
provide more pro-social activities.
Families have a big impact on kids and what they choose to do with their
time. Over 50 percent of the students reported feeling very supported by
their families, while less than 6 percent felt little or no support. Over
60 percent of the OSCAR youth shared they have very low levels of conflict
in their home. In contrast, 11 percent experience family conflict almost
always when family members are together.
In general, families appear to be a very positive presence in the lives
of adolescents. Efforts could be made to ensure this situation for all
of Ohio's youth.
Time spent in pro-social leisure activities and positive family relationships
are just two factors that assist teens to become successful adults. Youth
today face many changes and challenges, but most of today's young people
do a remarkable job coping with these changes.
by: Laurie L. Meschke, Human Development & Family
Science, University of Minnesota
Editor's note: Laurie Meschke was an Ohio State University
Extension specialist until earlier this year.
LifeTime Tip
Here's more on what today's children do with their time:
Children ages 3 to 11 tend to spend much less time these days in unstructured
play. According to a University of Michigan study reported in the May 1999
issue of American Demographics, children today have 75 percent of their
weekday time programmed. In 1981, only 60 percent of a typical kid's day
was scheduled in some activity.
The Michigan study also revealed children spend more time in organized
sports. The U.S. Youth Soccer Association had 810,800 registered players
in 1981; today, the figure is 2.9 million.
Older children, teens ages 13 to 17, apparently spend less time in structured
activities, according to a 1997 Gallup Youth Survey. Reported in the July
1998 American Demographics magazine, the survey asked teens how they spent
time after school; 85 percent said they hang out with friends and another
76 percent said they watch television at home. Still, 64 percent said they
play an organized sport; 43 percent work for someone other than a parent;
37 percent work for a parent; and 36 percent take music, dance, drama or
art lessons.
by: Martha Filipic, Technical Editor, Ohio State University
Extension
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Too busy?
Try working less
If you crave more time to spend with family, consider working less
than full time if your finances will permit it.
Working less than 40 hours a week is becoming more common. Years ago,
this choice meant a dead-end career, but that isn't the case in today's
world.
In a recent study conducted in the United States and Canada, about two-thirds
of professionals and managers who worked less than full time in 45 different
companies did not experience a stalled career. In addition, 35 percent
of the study participants had been promoted while working less than full
time.
Participants had been with their current employer about 12 years and
had been working a reduced work load for four to five years. Both women
and men, parents and non-parents who worked less than full time felt greater
control over their lives and more fulfillment in a variety of life roles.
Success depended on multiple factors:
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Strong performance record.
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Unique skill set in high demand.
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Flexibility in responding to work demands.
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Devoted to hard work and commitment.
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Organized, concentrated work style.
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Self-starter, takes initiative.
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Strong, clear personal values.
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Manages communications seamlessly.
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Supportive boss or supervisor and competent, supportive peers/subordinates.
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Organizational culture of employee-centered values.
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Widely publicized work/life policies.
Individual characteristics proved to be more important than the job itself.
Even though family and personal life factors didn't make the top of the
list, they were mentioned consistently, especially good, flexible child
care and a supportive spouse with a good job, pay and benefits.
The study also found:
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Participants gained an average of 18 hours a week by working a reduced
load.
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The participants' subordinates rated their effectiveness as 7.2 out of
9.
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Ninety percent did not plan to return to full-time work in the next three
years.
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Ninety percent reported positive effects on their children, including better
relationships with them and being able to spend more time with them.
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Ninety-one percent were happier and more satisfied with the balance between
home and work.
Source: Improvising Careers: Accommodation, Elaboration,
Transformation, by M.D. Lee and S.M. MacDermid, et.al., West Lafayette,
Ind.: The Center for Families, Purdue University, 1998.
by: Jan Thompson, Leader, Work/Life/Health Issues,
Ohio State University Extension
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Talk, listen
better with your children
When your children talk, do you really listen? Listening may be the
most vital part of the conversation.
Here are some ideas to communicate better with your children:
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When the conversation starts with "Know what, Mom?" realize this is an
invitation to pursue.
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Have eye contact and be physically close or actually touch your children
when as you converse.
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Invite children to help you with activities, chores and errands. The more
time you spend together, the better chance for conversation.
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When appropriate, express to your children some of the things going on
in your life and request their opinions. Older children like to identify
with "real life" situations and sometimes can relate it to an event taking
place in their own life.
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Many times emotions are a part of the conversation. Help your children
identify their emotions and why they feel that way. Don't disregard them
with "don't worry about it," for that can compound the problem. They do
have a problem and they need some help to work through the issue.
by: Melinda Hill, Ohio StateUniversity Extension, Wayne
County
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Balancing work,
family, and school
A group of employees at GTE in Marion, Ohio, are part of a pilot program
that allows them to finish work and walk down the hall to college classes,
offered at the worksite by Ohio State University-Marion. This group faces
some unique challenges in managing multiple roles.
Several students shared techniques for managing work, school and family:
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Cathy Skinner said, "Streamlining is a must. Don't over-extend on the elective,
"volunteer" portions of your schedule. And, keep family first!" Weekends
are catch-up time for housework and homework, which results in limited
family time. She does ask her family to help out as much as possible.
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Nancy Baker said she could not make it without a supportive spouse to help
with housework, meals and transportation of their kids. Nancy also said,
"Keep communication open with your family members. Let your family know
what to expect and what you expect from them."
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Mary Rains enjoys walking down one flight of stairs to go from work to
college, but she says she must be very organized and plan ahead. Keeping
everything written in a day planner or calendar is a must.
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Evan Taylor tries to stay busy so a busy schedule seems normal. He does
allow time on the weekends, though, to play golf and relieve a little stress.
"I work 9 a.m. to 8 p.m. Monday -Friday and at the phone company, it gets
stressful. I just stay focused on one thing at a time and keep a positive
attitude towards everything."
Regardless of job or family structure, everyone faces challenges in managing
multiple roles. By trying various techniques and finding what works best
for you, you may find that managing tasks can be a little easier than you
think.
by: Mary Longo, Ohio State University Extension, Marion
County
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