Retirement:
Make it meaningful
Until recently, looking ahead to retirement meant the anticipation
of a quieter lifestyle: Time for elderly folks to spend afternoons rocking
on the porch, fishing, knitting or playing cards. Planning for this distant
time may have focused on finances or health care, but very likely, little
else. Perhaps Robert Browning's wisdom is even truer today than it was
in the last century when he wrote, "Grow old along with me; the best is
still to be. The last of life for which the first was made."
Making the transition from a job or career to the next phase of life
is one that should be done with thoughtful planning. Retirees who have
done their homework frequently realize that the best and most satisfying
period of their life is about to begin.
In Beating the Age Game, authors Jack and Phoebe Ballard redefine retirement
and encourage mid-lifers to begin creating a framework for the future or
their "third half of life." They suggest that a personal vision of this
lifestage should encompass a balance of leisure time, learning, and a lifework
to passionately pursue.
The Ballards' model of retirement is rooted in the new longevity of
Americans. Thanks to medical advances and better health habits, especially
nutrition and exercise, life can begin at 60 and extend well into the 80s,
90s, and 100s. Outmoded stereotypes of older people are collapsing. Even
the definition of "aged" is changing; the old aren't as old as they used
to be.
At 80, Helen Hayes declared, "If you rest, you rust." Approaching the
third half of life may be retirees' first real chance to stand back and
consider the available options. Opportunities are unlimited! Far from being
finished, people in the third half are in their prime. They know what they're
good at - and what they're not - and they know what they enjoy. They are
mellower, wiser and more mature.
The challenge for prospective retirees is directing their energies and
knowing how to work toward an avocation that is both productive and rewarding.
The Ballards suggest that retirement work is most fulfilling when it is
focused beyond the individual and their family. To provide service for
others in a supportive environment strengthens relationships and enhances
self-esteem. Staying active and involved is not a matter of going out to
pasture, but instead - staying in the swim of life!
Retirement may appear to be a distant goal, but time passes much too
quickly. Start planning now for the time when "school's out" and you're
free to fulfill your dreams and expectations. The future is just around
the corner.
by: Ann Clutter, Family & Consumber Sciences
Specialist, Southwest District, Ohio State University Extension
LifeTime Tip
If you are not already saving for retirement,
start now. According to the College for Financial Planning, if you save
in a taxable account early vs. late in your career, you will reap the benefits:
Early career (age 22-30)
*Save $39/week for nine years (about $2000/year)
*Invest $18,000 at 9% interest
*Earn $579,471 by age 65
Later career (age 31-65)
*Save $39/week for 35 years (About $2000/year)
*Invest $70,000 at 9% interest
*Earn $470,249 by age 65
Tax deferred accounts grow even faster. According
to the Financial Management Workbook (Emerald Publications, 1995), $2,000
earning 8 percent interest in a tax-deferred account will be worth about
$518,000 after 40 years, almost twice as much than the $274,000 that would
accumulate in a taxable account earning the same interest rate.
by: Susan Crusey, Logan Co,
and Marilyn Sachs, Williams Co, Family & Consumer Sciences agents,
Ohio State University Extension
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New-fangled
vacation time
Competition for good employees has sparked some new perks in the workplace.
Vacation, or paid leave, is one that is taking many forms. For instance,
a company in Georgia offers current employees an incentive to refer new
people to the company. For each five referred new hires, the employee gets
a free $5,000 vacation.
Workplaces are also finding creative ways to make taking vacation days
more enticing. A Michigan company offers "twice-paid" vacations. A five-year
employee earns three weeks paid vacation per year. Just before the employees
leave for vacation (for at least a week), they receive a bonus check equal
to a two-week paycheck.
A Columbus, Ohio, company has another tactic - a $1,200-a-year vacation
allowance. In addition to the paid time off, the employee also gets the
allowance. The only restriction is that it be spent in one "shot." According
to the company CEO, the employee is more likely to remember the company
helped make possible a specific vacation or destination.
Another workplace, in Atlanta, gives employees paid vacation time plus
$500 for vacation travel.
"Time-off banks" are springing up in many workplaces. Employers are
realizing that employees need time off for many reasons. Pooling all paid
leave time (sick, vacation, personal) gives employees more control over
their time and serves as an effective tool in resolving work/life conflicts.
According to human resources spokesperson in one company, "This is a more
mature approach to the workplace." Ten years ago Hewlett Packard replaced
the traditional sick and vacation categories for "flex time off." Every
employee gets 15-30 paid days a year to use at their discretion.
Some workplaces also offer a way for employees to give paid time off
to others. Employees donate paid time off hours to a bank that can be accessed
by other employees in times of emergency. According to a company spokesperson,
"It's like giving blood - it's emotionally uplifting and you hope you never
have to use it."
by: Jan Thompson, Work/Life/Health Issues,
Ohio State University Extension
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Make love last
Mutual understanding and consideration nourish a marriage.
But what does that mean in day-to-day life? Here are a few ideas:
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Let your partner know your needs. Don't assume your he or she is
a mind-reader.
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Realize that your partner may at times reject you for expressing your feelings,
but unless you're willing to take that risk, you will not establish intimacy.
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Never air your differences or put your parner down in public, no matter
how angry you may be.
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Deal with conflict when it occurs. Otherwise, all the small irritants
will build into one gigantic eruption.
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Never go to bed angry. Work out whatever conflict or problems that
you're having before going to bed.
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It's better to reward and reinforce a partner's good behavior than it is
to criticize him or her for bad behavior.
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Be willing to forgive. Holding on to angry feelings doesn't make
people feel very loving.
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Play, laugh and have fun.
by: Joyce Fittro, Family & Consumer
Sciences Agent, Deleware Co, Ohio State University Extension
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When will you
be ready for retirement?
By the time you read this, I'll be retired, ready or not. What
is "ready"? Does ready mean you are flowing on smoothly into the next stage
of life, or does it mean getting away from the stress of now while you
still have a shred of sanity? Ready for my father-in-law meant lying on
the death bed. For me it's more like making a change that will allow me
to try new activities_ even sleeping in!
Lots of friends and colleagues tell me they want to retire but their
money bags aren't fat enough. That is a major consideration, but when is
enough, enough? Consider the things you truly value to decide when your
income will be enough. I've had a full life of travel and varied experiences,
and now crave using that background to create some new art and new thoughts
to leave as a heritage for my grandchildren.
That means I'll have to support food, shelter, and paper. If inflation
goes out of control, that may translate to stone soup, a tent and birch
bark. Already bought the tent, just in case.
Getting ready for retirement means to simplify. Plan your housing so
it will take less upkeep, but still allow you to enjoy your lifestyle.
If you've always had a vegetable patch, don't fall for a condominium. Plan
a space for tea cups and linen napkins if you enjoy having the "girls"
in. I worked a few extra months to finance my sewing and art room, potting
shed, and Pooh corner for the grandkids. That should just about do it.
Continue or try hobbies that are affordable and don't tax your particular
physical weaknesses - we all get them. Hobbies may lead to another career,
but above all should give you peace and satisfaction. Share your hobby
with at least one child.
As much as I would enjoy living my retirement in a beach house on the
ocean, I decided to spend at least six months a year here in Butler County
because I believe in that 4-H camp song, "Make new friends, but keep the
old. One is silver and the other gold."
by: Joyce Fittro, Family & Consumer Sciences
Agent, Delaware Co., Ohio State University Extension
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